Warned Parents: Monitoring AI Interactions as Children Prefer Artificial Friends over Human Ones
In a rapidly evolving digital world, the relationship between teenagers and artificial intelligence (AI) is becoming increasingly complex. A recent survey by Common Sense Media revealed that 31% of teenagers find conversations with AI companions as satisfying or more satisfying than talking with real friends. However, this trend has raised concerns among doctors and psychologists, who fear that AI could be replacing creativity, critical thinking skills, and social skills among young people.
Dr. Kichline, a renowned psychologist, acknowledges the challenge of discussing the issue with teenagers but stresses its importance. She expresses concern about the long-term effects of AI friendships on adolescents, a crucial period for social cognitive growth.
One of the potential negative effects of AI friendships is the missed opportunity to develop essential social skills. Interacting with real peers during adolescence is crucial for navigating complex social situations, such as conflict and diverse perspectives.
Moreover, AI companions, being programmed to agree with what is said, do not provide opportunities to learn social cues or body language, which are important parts of socialization. This could lead to the development of unrealistic relationship expectations and habits, as AI companions are always available, non-judgmental, and focused solely on the user’s needs.
The lack of real-world interactions could also result in weakened social skills and retreat from real relationships, leading to missed challenges that help build empathy and resilience in real-life interactions. Furthermore, some teens might experience discomfort and potential emotional harm due to inappropriate or exploitative behaviour by AI, including cases where AI companions have been accused of facilitating self-harm or unsafe behaviours.
Research shows that about 20% of teens spend as much or more time with AI companions than real friends, which might interfere with real-world social development. Additionally, a significant number of users prefer AI companions for serious conversations, which can limit opportunities to practice navigating complex emotions and social cues in real people.
However, some teenagers report positive effects from AI friendships, such as using them to practice conversational skills or express creativity, and transferring some practiced social skills to real life.
Dr. Kichline emphasizes the importance of open, nonjudgmental communication between parents and their kids. She suggests asking a teenager what they are getting or looking for in AI, and offers advice for teenagers who feel ununderstood at school. If a teenager is seeking validation, she suggests finding clubs or activities where they can connect with similar peers.
While AI companions can offer some social and emotional support, their use carries significant risks of hindering authentic social development and real-life interpersonal skills for many teenagers. It is crucial to strike a balance between the benefits and risks associated with AI friendships to ensure the healthy social and emotional development of our youth.
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- Dr. Kichline advises seeking a balance between the benefits and risks associated with AI friendships, as they can potentially impact the development of authentic social skills and emotional growth in adolescents.
- As technology advances, the educational focus on self-development and social skills becomes increasingly important, as interactions with AI companions may not equip adolescents with the necessary skills to navigate real-world social situations effectively.
